Executive Function Guide for Parents

As parents, many of us have experienced moments when our children forget to do something you just asked them to do, procrastinate with homework or chores, or seem completely overwhelmed by small tasks. These behaviors can be frustrating for parents, but many times these behaviors are not due to laziness, but are related to executive functioning (EF) skills.

Once we understand what executive function skills are and how they impact our children, we can better support them so they can be more confident and successful in school, at home, and in their future careers.

What Are Executive Function (EF) Skills?

Executive function skills are the mental processes that help children plan, focus, remember information, and manage multiple tasks successfully. Think of executive function as the brain’s management system.

Executive function (EF) skills help our children:

• Organize their thoughts and ideas

• Manage their behavior and emotions

• Develop time management and planning abilities

• Successfully start and complete tasks independently

Executive function skills develop gradually throughout childhood and adolescence, and many students benefit from explicit instruction, structure, and supportive tools to strengthen them.

Signs Your Child May Be Struggling with Executive Function:

• Forgetfulness

• Disorganization

• Easily distracted

• Procrastinating

• Impulsive

• Struggling to start or finish tasks

It is important to remember that these behaviors are often related to skill development, not a lack of effort or motivation.

With the right strategies and supports, children can strengthen these skills over time.

Parents, use the Parents Guide: Executive Function Strategies + Resources to help you better understand Executive Function (EF) skills and learn practical strategies to support your child’s organization, focus, and independence.

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And parents remember…. Your guidance, encouragement, and understanding play a powerful role in helping your child succeed. Small steps each day can lead to meaningful progress. You got this!